"Bread and Fire: Jewish Women Find God in the Everyday" by Rivkah Slonim


In the practice of Orthodox Judaism, all the rabbis are men (the Reform and Conservative branches of the religion now ordain women), men and women are seated separately in the synagogue and although both women and men have distinct religious obligations, women have traditionally not been expected to be scholars of  the Torah and Talmud and other sacred texts.  One of the countless revealing moments in the new anthology “Bread and Fire: Jewish Women Find God in the Everyday” comes in this story by teacher Karen Kirshenbaum of Jerusalem:
“I grew up in New York City in a family of all girls.  I actually think that I was lucky I never had a brother. My father is not a feminist; had I a brother he would have surely spent much of his time studying Torah with him instead of with his five daughters.  When my father was often asked: ‘What’s it like to have only girls?” he would answer in a teasing fashion with a smile: ‘Girls are the best if you can’t have a boy!”‘”

That anecdote is typical of what is found in the nearly sixty contributions in the book. It speaks of the centrality of home and family, the importance of learning, the emergence of a feminist view and does so with a flash of bright humor.  Some of the writers grew up in observant Jewish homes and speak from a lifetime’s experience, others have found in secular experience a spiritual depth.  Some of the women are professional  writers, others are pursuing careers as lawyers, doctors and business executives, many are homemakers. To succeed in our life’s work as individuals we must harmonize our masculine and feminine characteristics.  To fulfill humankind’s essential mission we must understand, value and utilize the contributions of both male and female…