Karin and Rudy Fuehrer 2 Published December 24, 2020 at 1241 × 1891 in Grief Comes Before Death When Caring For A Loved One With Dementia Karin and Rudy Fuehrer, both 60, have been married for 38 years. As Karin’s frontotemporal dementia progressed, Rudy became her primary caregiver. (Provided by the Fuehrers)